By: A Blessed Wardrobe Team
Photography by Maha Studios
A Reflection on 2020
The most historic year to take place. Our lives have been drastically changed from being isolated over months at a time, to the lack of socializing during important events and even the inability to eat indoors at a restaurant. We’ve learned a lot from 2020, but the message we've been taught the most is to appreciate what you already have, not just your dreams. It’s all about the finer details of life.
Going forward, 2021 Outlook:
1. How has your sense of fashion changed?
Afrah: My pivotal point in fashion happened during college. Before then, I was used to wearing a uniform to school. I have experimented with colors, patterns, and textures. Some days I looked great and then there were days where I looked like a hot mess. From this, I learned that I seek comfort in any fashion trend. I love how fashion can be customized to your liking and style. Today, I lean towards a minimal and neutral color palette with texture. I love earrings, hence, accessories are an important part of my wardrobe.
Hiba: Over the years my fashion sense has changed as I hit different milestones in life from college life to entering a professional work environment. The one thing that was constant throughout those years was that the more was better but in 2020 my fashion sense took a 180 turn. Now my mindset is the less the better, where I choose basics and dress it up rather than going all out. Instead of wearing flashy colors & bold makeup, I wear neutrals and stick with minimal makeup.
Mariam: I’ve always had my eye on timeless pieces, but I was very engaged with fast fashion as well. 2020 has enabled me to witness trendy purchases go to waste just within months, simply because I did not get the opportunity to wear them. I’m now fond of fashion pieces that are flattering for any body type. My weight has drastically changed from a small bump to full delivery, and now postpartum. I find it difficult and unsustainable to keep up with a wardrobe that only flatters a specific body type. Today, I like wearing minimal fitting pieces that are quality, sustainable, and more fashionable for daily wear.
2. If you knew 2020 was coming, what would you have done differently?
Afrah: From a personal standpoint, I would’ve done a self-audit. Meaning, reflect on who I really am versus how the world perceives me. The pandemic has taught me to think consciously and mindfully. In addition, I would’ve spent more time connecting emotionally with the people who are close to me. I can’t verbalize how much joy a simple text from a loved one can bring who you haven’t seen in months and the sadness/ pain of passed one loved ones during covid-19. In addition, leave higher tips at restaurants, spend less on things that serve no purpose, and actively look for ways to help those around us. Lastly, invest in virtual learning. Meaning, there are so many courses, platforms, certifications, podcasts, and more that can enhance or add to your skillset.
Hiba: If I knew 2020 was coming and affect us the way it has, I would have traveled instead of postponing it to this year. I would have visited my only living grandparent in Pakistan if I knew how coronavirus would take over our lives and confine us in our own personal bubble. I would spend more time with my close friends & family.
Mariam: I would’ve thrown a party! I didn’t appreciate the beauty in gatherings and socializing at events, as much as I do now. I miss the laughter, sarcasm, moreover facial expressions that you can only truly understand in person. As well as I would have taken my family more often to more resourceful places such as museums, aquariums, and of course travel. The experience and education we gain cannot be learned anywhere else.
3. Going forward in 2021, what will you do differently?
Afrah: Be more grateful. This pandemic has shown the impact of teamwork, togetherness, and humanity. Also, I rediscovered my passion for art. I used to crochet (I know I am a millennial grandma lol) occasionally but now I have made it an ongoing habit of taking small breaks throughout the day to practice the craft. Some days are better than others. I’ve also started to experiment with other art forms like drawing mandalas (a work in progress). Lastly, I’ve reconnected with my interest in reading books. Nothing like disconnecting from the world and getting lost in a good book.
Hiba: This year has given us all a lot to think about and reevaluate our lives. During this time, I started to spend a chunk of my time carrying out my passion in art. I have been kept busy with other responsibilities and plans but going forward I will be sure to make time for my passion. Art is my get away from the rest of the world, where I get to focus on just doing what I enjoy doing which brings peace to my mind.
Mariam: Be more present. Being isolated for so long and looking to screens for our sense of entertainment or socialization, I appreciate every moment I can get by interacting with others in person and I put my phone away. I’ll be picky with what consumes my time. We were on a busy schedule prior to the pandemic, it basically felt like we were working non-stop like machines rather than taking the time to enjoy what matters most. Most importantly, I’ll prioritize myself. It’s not about pleasing others or concerned about how it may appear, it’s about doing what makes you happy and if it’s good for you, the rest will fall into place.
